A couples therapist explains the 4 relationship killers that end marriages

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While people break up for lots of reasons,some behaviors are more destructive than others. 

Peter Pearson, the cofounder of the Couples Institute  in Menlo Park, California, says that he sees four relationship killers in his couples counseling practice. 

1. Keeping a "why should I have to change" attitude.

2. Withdrawing into a "bubble."

3. "Just getting used to it."

4. Adapting too much.

culled from yahoo